In the latter, Adam is stuck in a Catch-22 of not being able to get prescribed testosterone until he gets his asylum granted, and not being able to get asylum granted until he proves he's serious about transitioning. Neshla Caplan provides a villain as the Home Office Representative who takes some pleasure in deadnaming him during interviews.
If her microaggressions are deliberate, flashbacks to a female-presenting Adam (Yasmin Al-Khudhairi) back in Egypt show how being forced to live a lie is a life full of small unitentional betrayals: Unaware that her daughter actually identifies as her son, Adam's mother's (Myriam Acharki) loving nickname "Princess" cuts every time. This is a pretty bleak story including sexual assault and self-harm with few lighter moments (Adam forcing down his mother's liver recipe because his father says it "puts hairs on your chest" is a rare comic touch) but at least the presence throughout of a stubbled, flat-chested and Scottish-accented Adam Kashmiry means we know there's some kind of happy ending in store.
Poet's take on Adam's story is built to some degree around language: One thing that fascinates him about English is contronyms (words like "sanction" that can mean their own opposite,) a concept attractive to someone who's grown up finding his identity contradictory. In his native Arabic, he feels betrayed by the fact that it's a very gendered language, meaning his mother can't even say "I love you" without referring to him as female. It's a theme that adds a bit of nuance to what could have been a relentlessly bleak hour, and though he's had to put up with horrors along the way it's ultimately the story of a survivor.
Adam by Frances Poet is streaming on BBC iPlayer until February 2022 as part of the Lights Up season.
Running time: 1 hour.
Photo credit: Tommy Ga-Ken Wa.